Summary
An ever intriguing perspective on life experience in Elmhurst and greater NYC is offered from the lens of a recent arrival to the city. While some hope to set down roots, and develop goals, others view the choice to live here as a mere stopover in a chapter of life. One such person is Ngoc (Ruby) Pham Bich, an accountant from Vietnam. She arrived with her husband, a journalist and photographer for a short term assignment at the United Nations. In just less than four years, Ruby has embraced this opportunity, unfolding her time into a life changing journey. Registering at the local library for English Proficiency classes, Ruby has proved to be a top notch writer, and has emerged as a leader by organizing events and outings with her classmates and friends. Ruby, a petite, soft spoken person by nature, joined trips to Albany for library advocacy, and has had her writing work selected by NYU’s Literacy Journal for three consecutive years, while raising two children, and working part time. Here, Ruby shares how her life was impacted.
How have you transformed as a person since living in Elmhurst almost four years?
Ngoc (Ruby) Pham Bich: Living in Elmhurst for nearly four years has changed me in many ways. When I first arrived from Vietnam, my English was limited, but studying at the Elmhurst library has helped me improve my communication skills and feel more confident. The convenient transportation system makes my daily life easier, and the nearby Asian supermarkets allow me to continue cooking my favorite Vietnamese dishes. Through the Elmhurst community on social media, I have learned a lot about local events and resources, making me feel more connected. Living in such a diverse neighborhood has also exposed me to different cultures, helping me adapt and grow.
Has living in N.Y met your expectations?
Living in N.Y has mostly met my expectations. I love the convenience of transportation and the many beautiful places to explore. The city’s diversity makes life exciting. However, I didn’t expect to see so many homeless people or the subway to have a bad smell. Even with these challenges, I’ve still enjoyed living here.
You have emerged in a leadership role, both socially, and with classmates at the local library, planning events and outings, and always being the first to volunteer an idea. Was this the case before, or have you become a ‘new’ Ruby?
Before coming here, I was a timid woman who followed others, and never volunteered ideas. Living in New York has helped me become more confident. Studying at the library and meeting new people with similar hobbies encouraged me to speak up, and take part in activities. Now, I enjoy planning events and sharing ideas. I feel like I have become a ‘new’ Ruby-more independent and involved.
You have been selected for publication in NYU’s Literacy Review Journal for the third year in a row. How does this recognition feel?
Writing used to be my weakness, but taking classes at the Elmhurst Library has helped me improve a lot. Being published in NYU’s Literacy Review for the third time makes me so happy and proud. It feels amazing to share my stories with others.
Can you share something about your trip to Mount Rushmore? Why did you visit this national landmark?
My son Ben was so excited after watching YouTube videos about Mount Rushmore. Seeing his enthusiasm, we decided to make the trip. Standing before the massively carved faces of four presidents: George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Theodore Roosevelt, and Abraham Lincoln were breathtaking. We also visited the museum and learned that it took 14 years and 400 workers to complete. It was truly and unforgettable experience!
How about attending NYE at Times Square the past two years? What was that like? Most native New Yorkers never bother going to this event.
We felt so lucky to celebrate New Year’s Eve at Times Square together. I only saw it on TV, and dreamed of going there one day-and that dream came true! Standing in the crowd, surrounded by bright lights and music felt so exciting. It was an unforgettable moment, counting down, and welcoming the New Year in such a wonderful place!
Do you plan to continue writing creatively on your return to Vietnam? Perhaps come out with a book of stories in English and Vietnamese?
Yes, I plan to continue writing and will share my experiences of living in the U.S. I’ve collected all my pieces from my Creative Writing class, and hope to turn them into a book. I dream of publishing it in both English and Vietnamese one day!
What advice would you give to newcomers deciding to settle in Elmhurst?
Elmhurst is a great place for newcomers because of its diversity and strong community support. I recommend learning English at the Elmhurst Library, where you can find valuable information. Exploring local online communities and resources, such as weloveelmhurst.com, and the Elmhurst Facebook community can also be very helpful. Most importantly, take your time to adjust-soon, you’ll feel at home!
[FEATURED IMAGE: Ngoc (Ruby) Pham Bich by James McMenanin]
James is the Vice President of the Newtown Civic Association, the Elmhurst Memorial League, and Elmhurst History and Cemeteries Preservation Society.
A wonderful interview, thank you for sharing!